We're supposed to be creating wedding lists. People that we want to invite. You can look at the attached to see if you can think of anyone else but really I want your opinion on Jackie. Ann's not too keen on her, and you can see why, but I really think that they would have got along if Ann had met her without knowing me. Anyway if I put her name at the top of the list it looks confrontational, if I put it at the end then it looks like I was trying to slip it in as an afterthought and if I put it in the middle then she'll think I'm trying to hide it.

What should I do? I'm trying to be sensitive here.